Glena, Bunny and Sabrina in NYC, circa 2004
When we published our Thanksgiving Every Day post back on November 21, we wrote that we had hoped to get it online earlier but that “. . .our week got preempted by life. . “
What we didn’t tell you was that the preemption was a diagnosis of State 4 Colon Cancer for our very best friend, Pick Up Sticks copywriter and blogger, Bunny. The week before Thanksgiving she went to the emergency room in Santa Fe, with a referral from an urgent care doc convinced that she had appendicitis. Alas, it wasn’t her appendix acting up.
Bunny and Sabrina on the Plaza, Santa Fe, July 2012, with a high school friend, Kerry
Like everyone else, when we heard the words “Stage 4”, we found ourselves in a bit of a panic. As some of you who have seen us all together at market know, Bunny is our family. She is like our sister, but loves us like a best friend and we love her back accordingly. We’ve know each other since first grade and we’ve shared prom dresses and rides with bad boys in pickup trucks and days on the lake in bikinis and several marriages starting and ending and a thousand family dinners and dancing all night in dive bars in New York. . and meeting you in our booth at market.
Glena and Bunny at the Logan High Prom, looking hot in 1977
Bunny’s a freelance writer and we’re just one of her clients, but when she writes about Pick Up Sticks, it’s from the heart and from long experience. She was with us at our very first retail show (Country Thunder in Phoenix) and has helped us nurse this business into fruition from day one.
So it’s only natural that in her healing process, Pick Up Sticks plans to be a major player. On the day of her diagnosis, when several of her numerous friends were in the hospital room, her friend MariAnne fingered her Pick Up Sticks necklace and said, “I need a special Bunny charm, one I can wear that will remind me to say a prayer and send a good thought to her every minute of every day.”
Bunny, Sabrina and Baby Shasta, circa 1978
That idea grew, and Bunny’s Mom, Betty, who is one of our exclusive retailers in Logan, NM (our hometown, of course) looked through the catalog and found a charm that expressed Bunny perfectly. She then ordered every single one we had in stock, put out the word, and in the past three weeks, has sold almost 200 charms. She’s sold them at a higher profit margin, putting all that money made into a benefit account for Bunny, who unfortunately, will have rather high out-of-pocket costs for the next six months while she begins chemo treatment.
We’re taking it one day at a time, trying to deal with what could be a dark diagnosis, and we’re watching Bunny turn it into learning and loving experience, which is what she does with her life every day. For those of you who know her, you can follow her journal entries at www.caringbridge.org/visit/bunnyterry. Send along an encouraging word if you’re so inclined.
Bunny and Glena at the 12 Shores Golf Course at Ute Lake, Thanksgiving 2011
We’re honored that Pick Up Sticks charms are adorning the necks of women from Maine to California who are daily reaching up to hold that charm and Bunny’s well-being between their fingertips, wishing her well and saying a prayer for her.
She’s slated for 20 chemo treatments at the end of which her oncologist will explore surgical options. She’s got one under her belt and is feeling great. And she gave up the blog for this ONE post. . .otherwise she says she’ll be back with a vengeance next week to talk about new designs or something like that.
Bunny and Glena in the center of lots of Logan girls, Summer 2011
If you have someone in your life who is going through something difficult and you need a little help picking a special charm for them, let us help you out. This charm project for Bunny has been one of the most rewarding things we’ve been involved in since we started the business.
And of course, we’d appreciate your prayers and good thoughts sent her way.